Dating nine year age difference
Despite the unfortunate rise of the cougar phenomenon (not that dating younger men is unfortunate, just the use of the term cougar), it seems as a society, we're still more into May-December relations when the guy is the December. I'm not sure I actually know what that expression is supposed to mean. But what I'm trying to say is, more people still think that a romantic relationship is ideal when it's between an older man and a younger woman.
Specifically, four years and four months older, which was the average "ideal" age gap as reported by a survey of 2,000 adults.
While slightly less than half of people said there was no ideal age gap (good call, sensible people), 33% of women wanted a guy up to seven years older than them, while only one out of a hundred women preferred a younger man.
Not that I have anything against dating older guys, but here's some afternoon uggghhh: Financial stability was one of the biggest reasons women cited for preferring older dudes, since 55% of women said they couldn't afford rent or mortgages on their own. Most of the guys I've dated have been my age to just a couple of years older, but sadly for poor old me (literally), none of them have provided any financial stability so I don't think I'd call that a motivation. Is there anybody out there who prefers younger guys?
I will say that while I don't have a rule against dating younger guys, I probably wouldn't consider it my ideal dating situation either. How to date outside your age: The DOs and DON' Ts of Dating an Older Man Dating: 4 Reasons to Date a Younger Man Scarlett Johansson and Sean Penn Caught Canoodling!
Stupid society and its conditioning that men look handsome and distinguished as they age while women don't.
Despite an age gap of more than a decade, Colleen Smith and her husband Damian cite many factors that make their marriage work, including her role as the oldest child in her family and their common interests.
While she waits for people to pick their jaws up off the floor, she explains the benefits of marrying someone old enough to be her dad.
"The best thing about the age difference being so dramatic is that we both teach each other so many things about our generations," she says.
Ted is a big fan of old-fashioned chivalry, making sure to open doors for her, pulling out her chair and bringing her little gifts. I always feel like a lady because he always treats me like one," she says.
she didn't know that she was graduating high school when he was just starting it. But she says the age difference, however small it is, is good for their relationship.
"He appreciates my point of view and values my opinion as much as I do his.